One of my fabulous brides posed the above question to me today and with my own two cents (for what it's worth!) and a little research, here is what I've found...
Typically if the person owns their own business you do not need to tip because they will have negotiated the price that they are expecting. If of course you feel they go above and beyond, than feel free to give them a little extra something at the end of the evening (typically 10%). If you are there when the flowers and cake are delivered than they typically get a $10 tip at that time.
Other Vendors:
DJ - Yes.
DJ - Yes.
Band/Musicians - Yes, but not necessarily if they are booked independently.
Officiant - Yes - depending on the situation or a donation to the church. City officials such as a Justice of the Peace are typically not allowed to accept gratuity.
Venue - Yes for coat check ($1-2 per guest) and parking ($1-1.50 per car) as well as bathroom attendants if any.
Officiant - Yes - depending on the situation or a donation to the church. City officials such as a Justice of the Peace are typically not allowed to accept gratuity.
Venue - Yes for coat check ($1-2 per guest) and parking ($1-1.50 per car) as well as bathroom attendants if any.
Limo/Transportation - Yes.
Catering - Yes but make sure it is not already included in the contract. A service fee is separate and does not include tip.
Photography - Depends, see above.
Videography - Depends, see above.
Florist - Possibly at delivery.
Cake - Possibly at delivery.
Decor - No.
Videography - Depends, see above.
Florist - Possibly at delivery.
Cake - Possibly at delivery.
Decor - No.
The best way to thank someone is to REFER them to your friends and family. A handwritten thank you note with a picture of you in your dress for the seamstress or cutting the cake for the bakery are a priceless gift!
